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“Each of us has a unique part to play in the healing of the world.”


Marianne Williamson

About Nicole, The Alternative Psych

Background

If you've found yourself feeling disconnected from your body, overwhelmed by life, or repeating patterns you thought you had already healed, you're not alone. I know what it's feels like to build walls in order to survive and I also know the freedom that comes when those walls no longer need to exist.


I was born highly sensitive, but like many of us, life experiences taught me to protect myself. Those protective walls helped me survive, yet beneath them I never lost the part of me that was naturally drawn toward others. Even before I understood why, people found themselves opening up to me, trusting me with the parts of their stories they had rarely shared.


That calling eventually led me to become a school psychologist, where I spent years supporting children and families, assessing learning differences, and navigating the growing mental health challenges facing our communities. While I loved helping others understand behavior, I also began to realize that understanding alone wasn't always enough to create lasting change.


Behind the degrees and professional experience, my own body was asking for attention. Chronic pain and an autoimmune condition became invitations to look deeper. Despite years of studying human behavior, I knew there were places within myself that talking alone couldn't reach.


That journey led me toward ancient healing practices including Kambo, breathwork, yoga, Traditional Chinese Medicine, somatics, meditation, and psychedelic-assisted healing. Through these experiences, I began unraveling years of perfectionism, fear, trauma, and the constant striving to become someone I thought I needed to be. What emerged wasn't a "new" version of myself, but a remembering of who I had been underneath it all.


Along the way, I discovered something that profoundly changed how I understand healing: our stories live not only in our minds, but in our bodies. While insight is powerful, true transformation often begins when the nervous system finally feels safe enough to release what it has been carrying.


Today, my work exists at the intersection of psychology and ancient wisdom. I deeply value science, research, and evidence-based practice, while also honoring the profound intelligence of the body (an intelligence that cultures around the world have trusted for thousands of years). I don't see these approaches as opposites; I see them as complementary paths toward the same destination: greater wholeness.


As I sat in healing spaces with adults from every walk of life, I began noticing a common thread. Nearly every story included moments from childhood when a caregiver (often with the best of intentions) simply didn't have the tools, awareness, or support to meet a child's emotional needs. These weren't always stories of abuse or neglect. More often, they were stories of unconscious patterns passed from one generation to the next. That realization transformed the direction of my work.


I knew I wanted to support not only those healing from the past, but also the adults who are shaping the future. Whether you're a parent or not, I believe we all have the opportunity to become the adults we needed as children...people who lead with self-awareness, compassion, healthy boundaries, emotional regulation, honest communication, and authenticity.


I also believe that healing isn't something another person can do to you or for you. No therapist, coach, medicine, or modality can magically heal you. Every tool (whether it's Kambo, therapy, breathwork, meditation, movement, or simply being deeply witnessed) is a doorway. The transformation happens when you reconnect with the wisdom that has always existed within you.


My role isn't to fix you. I don't believe you're broken. I believe you've adapted brilliantly to survive. My role is to help create a space where those protective adaptations can soften, where your body can begin to feel safe again, and where you can reconnect with the person who has always been beneath the layers.


If we work together, don't expect someone pretends to have all the answers. Expect someone who will meet you with honesty, curiosity, compassion, and deep presence. I'll gently challenge the stories that keep you stuck, celebrate your growth, and continually guide you back to your own inner knowing.


I believe every one of us carries unique gifts that the world needs. When we're caught in survival, trauma, or inherited patterns, those gifts often remain hidden. As we heal, we don't become someone new, we simply uncover who we've been all along.


It would be an honor to walk alongside you as you remember.


With love,

Nicole

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